Approach to
Marriage Counseling
While every marriage is unique, most of the couples we work with experience similar issues. A one size fits all approach doesn’t work, but years of experience have proven that following a general outline keeps the process on track and yields excellent results. We treat each couple individually, and utilize communication skills, tools, and a solution focused approach that helps people regain hope and feel confident about their relationship.
- Assess the overall relationship to determine the area(s) in need of improvement
- Develop and implement strategies for dealing with past hurts, establishing emotionally healthy habits, and building a teammate mentality to move forward together
- Occasional check in appointments to fine tune things as needed, and keep the marriage moving in a positive direction
How Marriage Counseling Works
Most couples who come to marriage counseling list one or more of the following issues as the reason their relationship is in trouble: infidelity, communication, in-law/family concerns, children and parenting, finances, prioritization, addictions, forgiveness, unmet expectations and falling out of love. We offer an objective point of view, new insights, and proven communication techniques that you and your partner will learn to use together. These new tools will enable you to defuse arguments and solve problems as a team.
Who is Marriage Counseling For?
The short answer to this question is everyone. Whether you have been married three months, or thirty years your marriage consists of two individuals with different ideas, desires, and preferences sharing one life together. While some couples do come to counseling to address a major crisis, others find it helpful in addressing smaller issues that just seem to keep coming up again and again. In addition to the married couple, marriage counseling also benefits the children, extended family members, and friends who are emotionally invested in one or both of you. Whether you are in need of guidance to navigate through difficulty, or just want to learn ways to improve the little areas that need some work, counseling will help. Lastly, even those couples who are not yet married could still benefit from a few meetings with a professional. If you are headed towards marriage, or a long term committed relationship, couples counseling can provide tools to enrich your relationship.
Finding the right
Marriage Counselor
At Winter Garden Wellness, we have two clinicians on staff that combine for nearly forty years of counseling couples. Julie Taylor and Bryan Truelove have very different backgrounds, but one common goal of helping couples resolve issues successfully and enjoy marriage to the fullest.
Frequently Asked Questions
We’ll Answer
Marriage counseling is a type of counseling that give couples an opportunity to talk about their marriage with a trained professional in a safe place. Marriage counselors help clients to identify the full scope of their marital problems and concerns. Once those have been identified, they provide the couples with tools and resources to work through these issues.
You don’t! Forcing someone into counseling rarely ends well. There are many reasons someone may be hesitant to try counseling, and those feelings should be respected. If you invite your spouse to join you in marriage counseling, and they refuse, go individually on your own. Often when they see you are serious about counseling and committed to change, they eventually choose to join you. This is a much better situation because they will be more open-minded if they don’t feel forced to be there.
Yes. The best case scenario is that the concerns are addressed, tools and skills are acquired, and you will both enjoy a healthier marital relationship. Often this is exactly what happens. While we would like to claim a 100% success rate, the truth is that not every marriage stays intact. However, counseling is still helpful because it gives you the peace of mind that is only possible when you know you have tried your very best to improve things. It can also help to minimize the damage of divorce by having support and guidance through the process. All of us go into marriage counseling working towards a happy ending, and more than not we help people reach their ultimate goal.