Words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm. – Depeche Mode As a therapist you might think that a large part of my job is to help people improve the communication within their marriage and family. You would, of course, be correct. So when is communication actually the wrong approach? In what situation could […]
READ MOREI recently had the opportunity to enjoy a family vacation in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. One of the activities we hoped to accomplish while vacationing was a nice hike in the Smoky Mountain National Park. This would be a first for my wife and daughters, and something I haven’t done since I was a young teen. After […]
READ MOREDiscontent is the first necessity of progress. – Thomas Edison I have talked with many people over the years who have a tendency to avoid addressing concerns with others. Usually when we get to the root cause I will hear something like, “Why should I risk starting an argument when things aren’t too bad?” In […]
READ MORELove: A temporary insanity curable by marriage. – Ambrose Bierce Maybe Ambrose is a bit more cynical than most, but if you’ve been married any length of time you have no doubt discovered that love is not the only emotion that comes with marriage. As we are planning our wedding and walking down the aisle […]
READ MOREPossibly the deepest human need is the need to feel appreciated. – Psychologist William James One trend I have noticed lately is a growing number of couples identifying an emotional affair as the main cause for coming to counseling. For those who are unfamiliar, an emotional affair is any infidelity that does not involve physical touch […]
READ MOREWhen wealth is lost nothing is lost. when health is lost something is lost. When character is lost all is lost. – Billy Graham Betrayal comes in many forms. The most obvious being a physical affair. However, emotional affairs, drugs and alcohol, or addictions to things like pornography, spending, sports, gambling, and gaming/social media can […]
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