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A person’s a person, no matter how small”- Dr. Seuss 

A child’s mind is full of innocence, discovery, and, oftentimes, confusion. With all the stress in the world, a child frequently doesn’t have the coping skills to deal with life’s problems. Consequently, they may be harboring troubling thoughts and feelings.  

As a parent, you may feel like something is wrong but not know exactly what is going on. Maybe you notice a change in their behavior or you just have a gut feeling. If you feel like something significant is bothering your child it is probably best to explore it. 

That does not mean that your child is going to open up to you. Children frequently don’t express themselves by talking. Instead, they may exhibit negative behavior or stuff their feelings deep inside. It can be extremely frustrating when your child won’t let you in on their inner thoughts. Parents want to solve all their children’s problems. Regrettably, that is not always possible. 

The truth is that parenting is hard. No parent has all the answers and sometimes you will need a little help. That does not make you a bad parent. Just the opposite. You are trying to do what is best for your child. Seeking professional help is evidence of just how much you truly care for their wellbeing.  

Child therapists have a certain advantage over parents. First, they carry objectivity that a parent can never have. That perspective enables them to look at a situation realistically and come to an accurate assessment. Second, they are trained in how to best help kids communicate their thoughts and feelings. They will use creative ways to help your child express their issues and work toward resolving them. Finally, they are an outsider. They are not mixed up in family dynamics and emotions. Your child has the understanding that their therapist is there to help them and is not just another authority figure. This is why therapy frequently works when other interventions fail. A child recognizes that therapy is a safe, non-judgmental place to work on their problems.  

You may worry that you will be left out of the therapeutic process. Don’t be. Effective child therapy is a collaboration between counselor, parent, and child. The therapist realizes that you are the most important person in your child’s life. In fact, don’t be surprised if the counselor sometimes wants to speak with you. They will want your input and can offer assistance in finding the best way to help you interact with your son or daughter. A therapist will assist you in overcoming obstacles in communication and employing the most appropriate intervention. In short, they will help you to become a better parent.  

Okay, that all sounds great. But does counseling work? Research consistently shows us that therapy has positive outcomes. That does not mean that every session is going to end with a moment of supreme enlightenment but, more often than not, your child will reach their goals. 

When I was training to be a therapist, I asked my supervisor if he ever thought that counseling could be counterproductive. He told me that—no matter what—the client always learns something valuable about themselves in therapy. So, why should you bring your child to counseling? As the great Dr. Seuss said, “Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting, So… get on your way!”

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Bryan is an expert who understands how to break down and get to the root of an issue, and his strategies and approach were immensely helpful for my family. Above all, he truly cares about his patients and helps them. I cannot recommend him highly enough!

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I highly recommend Bryan for individual and couples therapy. He always made me feel comfortable and I felt like I could be myself which is super important when going to counseling.

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In my time in Florida, I had the opportunity to work alongside Bryan in helping families and I believe him to be of high integrity and care with his patients. He demonstrates great knowledge of what each client needs and doesn't just care about the psychology behind the issues the clients face, but deeply cares about the patients. Long-term health is always the goal Bryan seeks to attain for each client. There are few counselors who care about their patients the way Bryan does. I would, and have, recommend him to any family or individual struggling with the issues life brings.

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I met with Bryan for about 8 months. I began meeting with him individually (for about 5 months) and for the final 3 months, my partner and I went together. We cannot be any more emphatic when we say that our experience with Bryan was wonderful.

Bryan demonstrates a superb level of care and commitment to his clients. He fosters an environment of openness, honesty, and acceptance that allows clients to confront their flaws and limitations in order to heal and make changes for the better. It is clear that Bryan is in this profession for all the right reasons and is gifted as a counselor. I would strongly recommend him to anyone.

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To put it simply Bryan is a superstar! Yes, he is an excellent therapist...I have several family members and friends who have been referred to him, and he is absolutely wonderful. He has and uses a Christian foundation with his counseling and has a calm, pleasant demeanor that puts his patients at ease. He is insightful with his approach to therapy and I would recommend him to any colleague, friend, or patient without reservation.

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I started working with Bryan 7 months prior to writing this review. I went alone in hopes that he could help with some relationship issues I was unable to solve on my own. Bryan has been nothing short of a miracle in my life. My story is still being written, but I look forward to my appointments with him. He is calm, kind-hearted, and genuinely wants me to succeed. He looks at every angle and gives guidance/suggestions that only betters my situation. Bryan is extremely intelligent and knows how to help people. Better than that he enjoys helping people. I will continue to refer him to anyone and everyone. True companionate people are not just hard to find but he does with the intent of actually building his patients up. I can not say enough great things about him, and strongly recommend him to anyone in need.

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My husband and I met with Bryan for about 5 months. The time and money we spent were without a doubt, one of the very best investments we have made for our marriage. The care and commitment with which Bryan treats his clients are outstanding. He patiently, kindly, and honestly helps clients understand situations or wounds with clarity to which he offers sound and concrete steps towards healing. Bryan helped my husband and I to grow as individuals as well as together as a couple, and our marriage was strengthened tremendously.

After our marriage counseling concluded, I continued to meet with Bryan individually for about 3 months. Bryan helped me to understand my need for a better relationship with God which sent me on a journey that completely changed my life. I continue to live with the same struggles (from an incurable medical issue) yet I no longer suffer from the debilitating depression it used to cause me. I will never be able to adequately thank Bryan for the gift his counseling gave me and my marriage.

I would highly recommend Bryan to anyone.

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